Originally published April 2, 1995, Sunshine Magazine (Fort Lauderdale Sun-Sentinel)
THE LETTER BEGAN LIKE most he wrote from the Army, even when he said he had been wounded: “I am well, happy and safe and I hope you all are the same.”
Technician Fifth Grade Frank D. Mauro scribbled the letter April 27, 1945, from his infantry unit in Italy to his parents in Mount Kisco, N.Y. He had met another hometown boy, described the farmhouse where he and the other GIs bunked and raved about the generosity of the locals, who gave him fresh eggs.
Then he closed: “Someday, I’ll tell you a lot of things that I can’t tell you right now. Love and kisses, Babe.”
A week later, on May 4, Frank “Babe” Mauro was killed. In four days the Allies would dance in the streets, celebrating V-E Day.
ALL MY LIFE, I ONLY KNEW Babe as a hand-tinted photograph on my grandmother’s bedroom dresser: an Army field cap cocked to the right on his head, light-brown hair curled on the left. When I was a boy, he looked a mature, grown man. Now he looked the 20-year-old boy he was when he died.
My grandmother always said he looked like me.
When Grandma died in 1988, my mother found a family treasure: a box stuffed with dozens of letters from Babe, the Army radio operator, written on stationery from camps in Georgia and New York, on onion skin and V-mail. The letters give a glimpse at an everyman’s life in the infantry, with alternating visions of excitement and boredom, beauty and devastation.
For me, 50 years after Babe died, the letters were a personal project, a starting point for research into an unknown uncle who would now be 70.
I studied his letters, organized them, indexed them, researched them. Almost everywhere I turned, I learned a little about my uncle, much of it contradictory, and a lot about the war.
My grandmother had kept one official document, a letter dated Oct. 8, 1946. This stated that Babe “died as a result of drowning near Novorro, Italy, when the vehicle in which he was riding was forced into a canal.”
Another source said that Babe was in one of the most active units in the war. Indeed, he burst with pride from the moment he was posted to the Antitank Company, 168th Infantry, 34th Division: “It’s the best on this side and I don’t mean maybe,” he wrote Aug. 7, 1943. “It’s got a history that dates way back to the Rainbow Division of the last struggle.”
From a list of 80 veterans of Babe’s unit, more than three dozen replied to my letters. Ten more took my phone calls. No one knew him.
As it turns out, Babe was among the replacements for the veterans I had found. Almost to a man, they described their capture in February 1943, the month my uncle enlisted, during a confrontation with Rommel’s troops at the Kasserine Pass in Tunisia. Mismatched, outgunned and surprised, the entire company was killed or captured on Valentine’s Day.
“Rommel just outsmarted us,” said Lawrence Query, of Atlantic, Iowa. Query, 77, waited out the war in Stalag 3B, Furstenberg, Germany.
Nearly every man I reached was eager to help me learn more about Babe. One of the veterans pointed me to Craig Johnson, a 27-year-old computer technician in Cocoa who was assembling a list of the 34th’s war dead.
“These men went through indescribable anguish,” said Johnson, a native of Iowa, home of the 34th. He, too, had lost family in the war. “Most of the people from my generation don’t appreciate it. Pretty soon, they’re all going to be gone.”
Johnson’s database included thousands of names, but not Babe’s.
OF THE DOZENS OF veterans I have spoken with, no one has been able to tell me any more about Babe’s life or death. It’s clear though, that he was an enthusiastic soldier. On April 29, 1943, exhausted from a four-hour, 14-mile hike during basic training, he wrote: “You must think they are killing us down here. Well, they are, but I don’t mind because it’s for my own good.”
He also viewed the military with a certain humor. After watching Jeeps plow through mud, he wrote on Nov. 21, 1943: “Actually, they were driving through a river bed which was an ideal collecting spot for all of the rain which was falling. However, the United States Army says that the river bed is no longer a river bed, but a road, so now it is a road.”
Still, he obviously enjoyed the military, writing: “I don’t think I’d ever like being a civilian again.” He never had the chance.
There is little doubt that he drowned. His royal-blue address book (“Compliments of the American Red Cross”) is still water-stained. But my relatives remember the details differently. One thought Babe had crossed a mined bridge and tumbled into the river with a broken back. Another thought sniper fire forced his Jeep into the water.
Babe died two days after the cease-fire in Italy. So why was there sniper fire? And how is a Jeep “forced” into a canal? Where did the story about a mined bridge come from?
My letters seeking information from the government yielded few helpful details. The National Personnel Records Center said Babe’s file was destroyed in a fire. The “Report of Burial” notes that Babe “possibly drowned (acc. incurred when truck overturned into canal).” In other words, a traffic accident.
The “Report of Death,” in clinical military style, lists various categories and questions about the death, with the appropriate boxes X-ed: Investigation Made? No. In Line of Duty? Yes. Own Misconduct? No. Was Deceased on Duty Status? Yes. Battle or Non-Battle? Non-battle.
The file lists Babe’s personal effects: a plastic cigarette case, a lighter, a rosary, a penknife, a photo case, a wristwatch, 750 lire, a pen-and-pencil set.
Many of the letters Babe wrote show how desperate he was for contact with home.
“We saw a movie entitled Andy Hardy’s Blonde Trouble,” he wrote in July 1944. “I don’t see how they get people to see him play in the same picture every time under a different title.”
On Dec. 1, 1944: “That cooked spaghetti you sent was so good that I ate it cold. I took two nights to the first jar, half each night, but my mouth watered so at the second jar that I ate it all at one sitting.”
This letter, written Nov. 29, 1943, is typical of many:
“When are you going to send me that picture you promised for so long? Tell Mom and Pop that I want a picture of everybody, too, and I want one from Vince…
“I hope you get the Christmas card I sent to you all. It’s not beautiful to look at but the sentiment is there anyway…
“I’ll close now, Rosemarie, so take care of yourself.
“Love and kisses, Frankie.”
Rosemarie, Babe’s sister, turned 5 on May 22, 1945, the day the War Department telegram arrived.
“I was home alone when we got the telegram,” recalls my Uncle Bob, Babe’s brother. “I remember thinking, `How am I going to tell Mom?’ For a long time after that, I didn’t really believe he was dead.”
Rosemarie, my mother, was 3 when Babe went to war. She doesn’t remember her brother. She only knows him from information in government files, from her brothers’ memories, from his letters.
And from the hand-tinted photograph on the wall in her house.
Kurt Greenbaum is an information services coordinator at the Sun-Sentinel. Copyright 1995, Sun-Sentinel.
4 thoughts on “The Uncle Who Never Came Home”
My name is Eileen Mauro Rapacciuolo. I am the daughter of Arthur from Staten Island (born in Bklyn in 1931) and I believe that he was your cousin. He also had a brother Frank. My grandfather Arthur (born 1910) died very young approx 24 yrs old. I really don’t know any family history from my Dad’s side as he was only 3 when his dad passed, but I did remember my Grandmother Helen speaking of family in Mt. Kisco. I also remember my brother and Dad playing golf with a cousin Bob many years ago, I was reading, The Uncle Who Never Came Home with pride and sadness, even if there is no relation. If you have a moment to reply, my email is Eileen2shoez@aol.com. Many thanks, Eileen
Eileen, I’m so honored that you managed to find this little spot on the Internet and took the time to post a comment. I am dying to know how you stumbled on this. I will certainly reach out to you and I hope we can have some time to speak on the phone together and learn more about any common roots.